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The Phases of Love

We all in our school must have studied the phases of the moon, at least once. Of course we did. At that age, I didn’t give much thought beyond learning what was taught just to pass exams. The moon was merely another chapter in the textbook, and I forgot about it later (hehe). As the summers passed, I gradually began to understand the phases of the moon in a way most people might not. Who doesn’t like to look at the clear sky at night? Stare at the stars until you forget the count? Or draw imaginary characters by mapping them together? I was that kid. I am that kid, actually. Even now, I look at the sky as if one day it might disappear and I would lose the opportunity to connect with my soulmate. Someone once told me that if you look at the night sky and think about your loved one, they, too, are thinking about you. (i forgot who told me this, but thanks for feeding my delusions. I shall find you one day threat )  I cannot help but think about how love can be simply seen in every po...

The Quiet Crisis: Searching for Meaning in a Noisy World



There’s a kind of crisis that doesn’t announce itself loudly. It doesn’t come with chaos or collapse. It hums beneath our routines, our scrolling, our achievements. It’s quiet, invisible, and persistent. It’s the crisis of not knowing why we’re doing what we’re doing. In a world that bombards us with noise—notifications, opinions, expectations—it becomes harder to hear our own inner voice.

In an age of relentless noise—news cycles, curated feeds, self-help slogans, and societal metrics of success, we rarely get a moment to ask ourselves the most human of questions: What truly matters to me? The modern world teaches us how to perform, to chase, to react—but not how to pause and reflect. We are told what success looks like, what happiness should feel like, and what paths are worth walking. And so, even as we fill our lives with stimulation, many of us feel empty. Psychology might call this a lack of “existential meaning.” Viktor Frankl, the renowned psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor, called it the existential vacuum—a spiritual emptiness that results when life’s outer distractions drown out the inner call to purpose. Psychology reminds us that without a sense of purpose, the human spirit withers, no matter how busy or entertained we might be.

Philosophy, especially the existential tradition, echoes this. Philosophy teaches us that meaning isn’t handed down; it is something we must carve out with thought, courage, and presence. Thinkers like Søren Kierkegaard and Albert Camus didn’t shy away from this ache—they named it. They walked into it. Kierkegaard called it angst, the deep anxiety of being aware of one’s freedom and responsibility in crafting meaning. Camus described it as absurdity—the dissonance between our search for meaning and a universe that offers no clear answers. But neither stopped there. Both insisted that the absence of obvious meaning is not a curse, but an invitation. An invitation to create.

Daniel Goleman, in his work on emotional intelligence, reminds us that awareness of our emotional states—our restlessness, our despair, our longing—is the first step toward managing and transforming them. Emotional insight isn’t weakness. It’s wisdom. When we attune to what feels hollow or misaligned in our lives, we can begin to reorient.

Psychology gives us tools to name our patterns. Philosophy helps us ask why they exist.

So perhaps the crisis isn’t that the world is too loud. It’s that we’ve forgotten how to listen to the voice inside us. In the rush to be seen, heard, and validated, we often forget the slow, difficult work of becoming—of listening inward, of aligning our lives with values that are authentically ours. We’ve mistaken movement for direction. We’ve forgotten how to pause, how to sit with the discomfort of not knowing, and how to trust that meaning, once lost, can still be quietly, stubbornly, found.

But meaning isn’t found in noise. It lives in stillness. In the quiet, uncomfortable space where we begin to wonder: What is mine to live for? And that question—soft, stubborn, and deeply human—might just be the beginning of everything.

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